just a little baseball weekend.

this weekend will be filled with blue jays action. going with the fam tonight, for our annual father's day game, and then tomorrow with my laurier gang to see another jays/angels game. there may be some night hopping, and dinner with chantel and her sister lisa will definitely fit into the mix.
photo originally from thestar.com
excited to see the new guy, brett lawrie, in action, on home turf.
why is it that we become so enthralled with sports figures, so young, and so fast? for me, i think i'm just obsessed.
have a great weekend everyone!

my (late and very busy) weekend... sort of in summary

I’m back!
I was part of a wonderful celebration this weekend of 2 of my favourite people in the world – and had a blast. Between a formal dinner, and a night out with the bridal party Friday night, rehearsal, then brunch, then a boat cruise, then a night out to the bar then club on Saturday, and then all day at the salon, and the ceremony, reception, and then a last hang out with all the people we’d been able to spend so much time with over the weekend.
It was fantastic – I had to battle a lot of back pain, limp down the aisle sans cane, give a toast (which apparently – according to guests – went very well), stayed up wayyyyy too late, made some fantastic new friends from LA (and subsequently have LOTS of places to stay there – and all over the world – now), and had a lot of withdrawal (in a few ways) when Monday came. I’m going to miss all of their friends, Mary and Reuben themselves, but now I get to spend time with Mary while she’s here waiting for the rest of her immigration info to be processed, without having to talk about wedding stuff! (blog post on Mary and Reuben coming soon).
Just to share the few photos I have from the weekend… (mostly from other people)

earrings; stack of necklaces for the bridesmaids; 1st night formal dinner - my close eyed smile (being like a 5 yr old); myself and Nicole from work; the beautiful mary arriving; mary’s sister; mary and patricia (from work); some guests enjoying the night; the bridesmaids (minus 1); 2nd night – boat cruise, and the boys doing some shots; Mary and I; Mary, Sarah and Reuben; Joe (best man) and the father of the bride; 3rd day – Mary at the salon; one of the bridemaids, Paige, having her hair done; our ride; the couple, finally married; my seat mate Jeff, and the flower girl; the head head table; cutting the cake; the first dance; the seat mate Jeff (of Jeff Johnson fame) rapping to the couple (Reuben represents Jeff); the work ladies, minus me; the couple in the royles Royce, on their way out; a fallen soldier at about 4am on wedding night; the day after the wedding – some of the boys at yonge dundas square for drinks; mary and I – absolutely exhausted (as you can tell from our eyes)

guest blogger: reflections on creativity and control issues

one of the things that jamie and i have bonded over is crafts. we both love "visual arts" and (i think) we both have an eye for it. you name it: beading, making cards, painting, decorating, making posters for fundraising events....
add to this the fact that we're both perfectionists: "if i want something done right, i'll just do it myself!"
while jamie does lots of crafts, her main outlet is making beautiful jewellery. i don't participate in as many (i'm lazy) but my main go-to is making cards (like scrapbooking, but i only do cards). jamie is one of very few people who i like helping me with cards or wedding invitations, and who i trust to use my equipment unsupervised.
so why am i telling you this?
one of the ladies at work is retiring next week and our 'team' is making her a scrapbook keepsake instead of a card. it's a great idea, she's going to love it, and everyone on the team is very enthusiastic about it.
however. being the one with all of the materials (equipment, glue, gadgets, cutters, punches, paper, ribbon, knowledge) i have been recruited by the managers to assist with this...and use my stuff. i will be reimbursed, that's not the issue. i like this kind of stuff, so my time is not an issue. i'm a brown-noser, so being involved is not an issue. what are the issues? i like to be in control. i am a perfectionist. i (think i) know what looks good - and what doesn't.
each team member has been asked to participate in making a page for the book, and most have come to help. due to my aforementioned "issues" i have been straining to hold myself back from freaking on my teamates for the last 5 lunch hours.
i am fully aware that these "issues" are my issues. my brain knows this activity's difficulty has nothing to do with these ladies doing anything wrong...they're just not doing it my way!

but then there are things that to me are common sense:
- if you're using a 12x12 piece of paper, don't cut a shape out of the exact middle of the page.
- if you're going to cut some of my expensive ribbon, use it.
- if we set aside matching sets of paper, use them and nothing else. (ok, that one's me...)
- if we're running out of glue, don't use too much.
- if the easy glue runs out, don't leave the lid off of the fast drying expensive glue.
- if you don't think you're going to be any good at this activity, stay away from it! (again, that's me, and something i would never say out loud!)

so, now my vent is over and the good news is that there is one page left to complete. soon i will no longer have to deal with these silly stressors, nor will i have to feel guilty about being such a pickle-butt with my supplies. it stresses me out!
i feel bad for any future children i may have...they're going to despise craft time with mommy.

guest blogger: weekend in review

hello everyone! greetings from kelly-ville.
as jamie mentioned, i will be guest blogging for her while she is recovering from the wedding festivities. i was not at the wedding but lots of co-workers were and i have heard nothing about how lover-ly the bride AND jamie looked. i hope jamie posts some pictures when she's back.
first off, it's going to be very difficult for me not to use capitals. i apologize if i forget. i've already slaughtered three (see: AND). now that's six. dammit.
also, i have chronic verbal diarrhea (sorry for the visual) so my posts will likely not be short. at least i can promise to give you something to read!
as per jamer's usual pattern i will treat you to a weekend in review! this was my first one at home in a few weeks so it was nice to not have tooooo much going on.
friday: i was off early at 3 on friday but didn't leave the office until 4. jamie and i are similarly bad at not leaving on time. i walk to work (lucky!) and as i sauntered home, i decided to pop into the bay (eaton centre) for a bit. didn't buy anything, which is lovely because i am on a wallet diet until i pay off my dept. this will hopefully happen next month!
next i went home and read on the couch for a while (the book of negroes - so good, so sad) and eventually met my manfriend for dinner. i like to cook but don't like to cook on fridays.
he wanted wings, i wanted something not-too-unhealthy, so we just walked in the general direction of king west and ended up at earl's [ http://www.earls.ca/ ]. manfriend had never been before and i had only been once with jamie. it was loud but the food was yummy (as was the malbec).
dinner was followed by a random bar for a few more drinks [ http://www.adelaidestreetpub.com/ ], and then a movie "rise of the planet of the apes" [ http://www.riseoftheplanetoftheapes.com/ ]. i wanted something blockbustery that wouldn't make me think too much, but it was actually really sad! i found myself aching for the poor chimps and their suffering, and i was definately not on the side of the homosapiens. good movie though. go see it!
we finished off our night at our local watering hole, mcveigh's [ http://www.mcveighspub.com/ ] for a quick dose of live irish music (also worth noting that a few scenes from boondock saints were filmed here).
saturday: almost every saturday that manfriend and i are in toronto we go out for breakfast. sometimes sunday too. we have many favourite haunts, but the one we go to the most is brassaii [ http://www.brassaii.com/ ] on king just west of spadina. we are both in love with their fresh-baked croissants, and i have a serious crush on their cappuccinos. the only problem with living in toronto and liking to "brunch" is that these meals are not cheap. we've had breakfasts that landed us will bills has high as $80, and $60 is not uncommon. this time the bill was closer to $60 but manfriend paid...yay for me! (our most expensive breakfast to date was in new york city at balthazar [ http://www.balthazarny.com/ ] at a whopping $120 for the two of us. delish!)
even though manfriend had to work (as a criminal defense lawyer he almost always works weekends) he agreed to go to the bay with me to look for a gift. if you hadn't already noticed on your own, yes i go to the bay a lot. the one at the eaton centre is classy, and it's close to my apartment.
we didn't find the gift at the bay, but manfriend bought himself a shirt and we found the gift at sears.
as a result if this impromptu shopping trip, i tricked manfriend into an extra few hours with me!
when he headed off to the office (also close to home, 5 min walk) i went to the st. lawrence market to grab stuff for dinner.
i spent the rest of the afternoon flipping through an interior design magazine i had just purchased, then prepped for m.y.o.p. night (make your own pizza!)...manfriend's buddy came over, we ate, and all went out to the pilot tavern [ http://www.thepilot.ca/ ] for drinks on the patio with manfriend's law school friends. it was a good time because one of them brought his fiancee who has just moved to toronto; she and i get along really well.
home to bed by 3am. that's a big-time late night for me. i'm getting old.
sunday: even though i was out late saturday, i felt great on sunday and got up at 10. no hangover (thanks to my signature drink: the white wine spritzer). made yummy omlettes with leftover m.y.o.p. ingredients, and set a plan to visit my friend natalie in brampton who has two kidlings that i just LOVE (four more capitals done-for). elise is 3 and molly is 8 weeks.
the plan was to make banana bread to get rid of the 12 fallen soldiers that had been gathering in my freezer...disaster. in an attempt to make the recipe healthier, natalie told me to substitute some of the flour for apple sauce. i didn't question it, but neither of us realized the tragic error until we were trying to figure out why the stuff just wasn't cooking. oops. should have substituted sugar for apple sauce, not flour! doh! (pun intended). alas, i came home with nothing but empty muffin tins, but i had a great day.
that's enough for now...stay tuned for two more posts from me this week!
tata!
k

we are all looking for love.

this weekend, i am lucky to share in the wedding of 2 of my favourite people in the world - my friends from LA, mary and rueben.
i will be off as their wedding is a 3 day extravaganza, and then we are all off to montreal to enjoy eachother's company.
have a great weekend everyone - and love those around you!
"if you love someone, tell them.
forget about the rules, or the fear of looking ridiculous.
what is truly ridiculous, is passing up on an oppourtunity
to tell someone that your heart is invested in them.
hearts are often broken by words left unspoken"